If I believe the loving appreciative caring people in my life are in this with me and are my earthly angels why would I believe those who by appearance seem to antagonize or assist in my seeing the shadow side of my humanness are not as well Why would I feel they are here due to mistakes Ive made or negative kharma

They just may be the closest allies I have and the spirits who are closest to me 

After alk I wouldnt trust that assignment to someone I didnt trust or know they love me